don sweat the small stuff

how often do we sit back and think the credibility of our actions ? are they justified to us ? the others ? obviously we consider only the first question.as long as the action gratifies us y give a damn to others ? this is a kind of mindset....the other way around ...it would be ..oh no hav i satisfied that concerned person by my action ? is it right for that person ? if he /she doesnt mistake me it is fine.....here is where we make mistakes in our intrapersonal as well as interpersonal relationships....both are important and indispensable.....it is wrong to place our happiness in the forefront as much as it is crazy to give our commonsense a backseat! we make scores of friends form innumerous relationships....but how many of them do we maintain ? it is dis U or I ? question that builds the rift ...and the passage of time widens it....why not give this a thought it is U and I that concerns any decision or action...firstly it should comply with our conscience and with the concerned person ......come on give it a break ! v cant have the cake and eat it too...either we share and eat or we dont touch it...dats how any action or a decision concerning a relationship should be....be it any relation....it is this decision making glitch dat gives vent to ego and attitude problems......cmon wat do we have to lose? even though we might cutback on our happiness it is always worthwile to attain peace...........the elixir of our mind....let go sum of ur ideas but not ideals...cos dats wat gonna take u to the heights of glory in buildin a relationship